I can take you everywhere
D/s isn’t rough sex.
D/s isn’t whips and chains and gags and cuffs.
When we’re not fucking but making love, when we’re snuggling, laughing, talking, I know my place. I belong by his side, as an equal, as his girlfriend, and as his submissive. I belong in his arms and I belong at his feet.
I don’t have to kneel before him to know this. I don’t have to call him ‘Sir’ all the time. I don’t have to be compliant and accepting 24/7.
D/s is not a switch that we turn off or on whenever we want. It’s a state of mind.
It is not always palpable, sometimes it is hidden behind playfulness and everyday life, sometimes it takes a time-out. But it is always there.
D/s is love.